Somebody Asked If The World Was Ready For “Mixed-Weight” Relationships On Screen, And The Internet Went Off

People are pointing out the ridiculous double standards after Nicola Coughlan's Bridgerton storyline sparked a whole bunch of discourse about so-called "mixed-weight relationships."

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In case you missed it, the latest season of Bridgerton revolves around Nicola Coughlan’s character, Penelope Featherington, and her relationship with Colin Bridgerton, played by Luke Newton.

Luke Newton and Nicola Coughlan dressed in Regency-era attire, holding champagne glasses at an elegant indoor gathering with candles and floral decorations in a scene from Bridgerton

Speaking to Stylist, the Irish star acknowledged how rare it is to see her body type represented on screen as she explained: “There’s one scene where I’m very naked on camera, and that was my idea, my choice. It just felt like the biggest ‘fuck you’ to all the conversation surrounding my body; it was amazingly empowering.”

Nicola Coughlan as Penelope stands against a wall, wearing a vintage-style dress with floral patterns, looking contemplative with hands clasped

In partial response to this article, Forbes published one of its own, and its headline posed the question: “Are We Still Not Ready For A Mixed-Weight Romance On Screen?”

"Are We Still Not Ready For A Mixed-Weight Romance On Screen?"
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But perhaps more notably, other users pointed out that the concept of “mixed-weight relationships” isn’t revolutionary at all. In fact, they have been dominating our screens for several decades with one key difference: The man is heavier than the woman.

Leah Remini and Kevin James sit on a couch. Leah gestures with one arm on Kevin's shoulder, who wears a casual sports shirt

“i find it interesting how there are countless fictional couples in film and television where the man weighs more than the woman but people didn’t start writing articles about whatever the fuck a ‘mixed-weight romance’ is until it was the other way around,” one person tweeted.

Homer Simpson, in his underwear, stands with hands on hips looking at Marge Simpson. They are in a wardrobe with shirts and pants hanging

Another agreed: “Meanwhile there are about a million different shows where a chubby man has a skinny wife, and no one bats an eye.”

Daphne Maxwell Reid playfully holds James Avery's face in a scene from "The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air"

Somebody else echoed: “Funny. ‘Mixed-weight’ relationships have been on screen for a long time. It’s only a problem when the woman is heavy.” This user also provided some visual examples, including cartoons and fictional characters represented by real-life actors.

Peter Griffin, in formal attire, is dining with a red-haired woman in a blue dress at a restaurant in front of a window showing a cityscape with a Belgian flag

These examples were Fred and Wilma Flintstone, Peter and Lois Griffin from Family Guy, the leads in Bob Hearts Abishola, Jim and Cheryl in According to Jim, and Phil and Vivian Banks in The Fresh Prince of Bel Air.

Courtney Thorne-Smith, Jim Belushi huding each other for a promo shot

Elsewhere, somebody else pointed out: “A reminder the 'fat guy thin wife' has been a trope in sitcoms for decades. A reminder that there is not a correct bodily flesh ratio to a relationship. A reminder Nicola is not fat (and it would be fine if she were).”

Nicola Coughlan is wearing an off-shoulder, sequined gown with floral details at a formal event, posing in front of a floral backdrop
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